Probably, this would be my shortest blog. Just to give a brief idea, think of any product which is advanced - Mobile Phone, Computers.... All advanced products shall/will support the basic features for which they are used. Just think, if you have a mobile phone which has supporting features to bluetooth, internet , conferences etc and doesnt have the feature of sending an SMS, would you like it? Unanimously, the answer will be a 'NO'. Similarly, God has made a lovely product called 'WOMAN' with some basic(of course special) features which defines her greatness. But, somewhere I feel, Advanced Women are products without basic features.
I feel an woman is complete when she is taking care of her family well. This includes smiling, being patient, cooking, understanding the requirements of family members and taking care accordingly. People respected woman for this as they knew that doing everything mentioned above is very difficult. I strongly feel , these days, these basic features are missing in their busy schedule. I think these women are missing something by forgetting their actual responsibilities for which they were respected. They are missing the happiness which a wife shall get by seeing her husband eating the food cooked by her, she is missing the happiness of being a good daughter-in-law and her mother -in -law feels that she is good. These days women think that why should they all these things. They feel that they are equally working for the family as men. Hence , turn their faces to take these responsibilities. They never realize that they are incomplete without these. I cannot deny they are working women, but they forget that if they initiate and take these responsibilities, their husbands and family members also join them to help her out. They also become part of her sorrows and happiness. I have asked most men about their choices on their wives. They always expect a homely, simple girl who can take care of them and their parents. A girl who can talk, smile and make the home environment happy. Men always want their wives to own the family as her own and make it beautiful. Women are loosing this power of owning a family by her wonderful capabilities by just comparing with her career. There is nothing wrong in bending a little in keeping the family in harmony. I wonder why people get into problems without understanding these small things. I think women have to re think on their modernization. If it is the modernization with their basic things in place, then the family is just a heaven.
Intentionally, I am not getting into details of this as people need to think on these lines depending on their lives. Whatever I write, it might be applicable to a set of people only. "I leave people to imagine", think and act according to their lives. I feel if women become little sensible, that is their success.
Smiles,
Meera
I feel an woman is complete when she is taking care of her family well. This includes smiling, being patient, cooking, understanding the requirements of family members and taking care accordingly. People respected woman for this as they knew that doing everything mentioned above is very difficult. I strongly feel , these days, these basic features are missing in their busy schedule. I think these women are missing something by forgetting their actual responsibilities for which they were respected. They are missing the happiness which a wife shall get by seeing her husband eating the food cooked by her, she is missing the happiness of being a good daughter-in-law and her mother -in -law feels that she is good. These days women think that why should they all these things. They feel that they are equally working for the family as men. Hence , turn their faces to take these responsibilities. They never realize that they are incomplete without these. I cannot deny they are working women, but they forget that if they initiate and take these responsibilities, their husbands and family members also join them to help her out. They also become part of her sorrows and happiness. I have asked most men about their choices on their wives. They always expect a homely, simple girl who can take care of them and their parents. A girl who can talk, smile and make the home environment happy. Men always want their wives to own the family as her own and make it beautiful. Women are loosing this power of owning a family by her wonderful capabilities by just comparing with her career. There is nothing wrong in bending a little in keeping the family in harmony. I wonder why people get into problems without understanding these small things. I think women have to re think on their modernization. If it is the modernization with their basic things in place, then the family is just a heaven.
Intentionally, I am not getting into details of this as people need to think on these lines depending on their lives. Whatever I write, it might be applicable to a set of people only. "I leave people to imagine", think and act according to their lives. I feel if women become little sensible, that is their success.
Smiles,
Meera
